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What to do? I have started dating a woman who has lived life to the fullest and has been through some interesting times in the past. She is now a very decent person and has a good job etc. She has also had acute money problems previously. The other day, I found the name and number of a local brothel in the address book on her mobile phone. Has she worked as a hooker in the past? How do I confront the issue?

First of all, before you confront her, figure out how you're going to explain going through her address book on her cell.

ask her,be prepared to explain why you were looking at her cell contacts. you might want to prepare yourself to get dumped,since you are not very trusting.

If she did work at a brothel its going to be a very, very hard pill to swallow. I can tell you personally there are certain standards/beliefs that interfere with how you can feel for a person. Question is, can YOU live with it?

hooker shmooker. the thing to focus on is the present. Is she awesome in bed? and if she is, then all those years on the streets have allowed her to perfect her skills for you.

dont think about the past

Does it matter? The past is the past and if she was I assume she did what she had to do, let it go.

Ask her how much she charges and ask for 50 %

honestly. she sounds perfect.
the past is the past.
dont let it bother you that much.
everyone makes mistakes.. you should be proud of her.. and how far she has come !